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Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Communicate in Due Season


Due Season:  a suitable time or favorable moment or opportunity where you can take advantage of things coming to a head.

What is communication?  It’s words, body language, tone of voice, and timing.  Why is communication important?  When we effectively communication, most any situation can be handled with the most positive outcome.  Notice those words—most positive.  Effective communication doesn’t mean the situation or words will always be nice, but will be handled with the best POSSIBLE outcome.

What does effective and clear communication require?  Discipline, patience, asking and seeking.  We need to be disciplined to know when to speak and when to listen.  Then, patience is required to do both of those—speak and listen.  Using our words and speech carelessly often leads to trouble.  But, if we have the discipline and patience to listen to others, we will have better discernment to know when it is time for us to speak.

One common mistake in communication is assuming what another person is thinking.  Clear communication requires asking and seeking information.  Then, once we have the information we need, it is important to find the appropriate time to speak—Due Season.

Proverbs 25: 11—A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.

“Fitly spoken” in verse 11 can also be translated “spoken in due season”.  Therefore, when the timing of our communication is right, it is valuable (apples of gold in silver).  Think about if our communication is the opposite of due season.  It is not valuable and rotten!

The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn’t said.” Peter Tucker

Credit ‘www.thechoicedrivenlife.com—Good Communication can Simplify Our Relationships”

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