Expectations

"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." - Ephesians 4:2

Devotional Thought

Officials carry expectations. We expect coaches to behave professionally, players to play with discipline and fellow officials to be prepared and focused. We should expect the best from others. Expecting the best creates an environment where people can grow, give grace when mistakes happen, and help others become better through challenges rather than being defined by them.

Every game includes mistakes. A coach may say something in frustration. A player may react emotionally. A partner may miss a mechanic or make an incorrect call. When we expect the best, we assume positive intent. We recognize that most people are trying their best under pressure. We offer correction without condemnation and lead with grace instead of criticism. Extending grace doesn't mean ignoring problems or lowering standards. It means maintaining high standards while extending the same grace God extends to us every day.

Ephesians 4:2 calls us to be humble, patient, and willing to bear with one another. To bear with others means enduring faults, mistakes, and differences—not with resentment, but with love. As 1 Peter 4:8 (NIV) reminds us, “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” This is what godly leadership looks like on the football field. Our attitude during the pregame conference, our response to adversity, and our communication in difficult moments influences the entire crew. When we expect the best from others, we help bring out their best—and set a positive tone for everyone around us.

Application

• Am I expecting the best from myself and my crewmates?
• When mistakes occur, do I respond with grace or frustration?
• Does my attitude set a positive tone for the entire officiating crew?

Prayer

Heavenly Father, Thank You for the grace You show us every day. Help us to lead like Christ by expecting the best in others while maintaining excellence in our work. Give us patience when mistakes happen, wisdom when correction is needed, and a positive spirit that encourages those around us. May our leadership on the field reflect Your love, Your grace, and Your faithfulness. Help us set a tone that honors You and serves our fellow officials well.

In Jesus' name, Amen.