REAL Crew

Process of making a sword:

1)    Metal is put into a fire and heated to make it softer.

2)    Hammer is used to pound the metal into desired shape.  During this process, the metal is put back in the fire, as needed, to keep it soft and flexible.

3)    Sword is hammered/grinded on the edges and points and engraving is performed.

4)    To complete the process, the sword is then heated at a very high temperature and placed in quenching tank.

As you can see in the sword making process, it is put into the fire many times.  Metal tools (hammer and grinder) are used to get it in proper shape.  The same can be said of us as officials.  We are put into the fire over and over again.  We get “hammered” and “grinded” and it takes Supervisors, fellow officials, and even ourselves to get us into the proper shape. Our goal should be to be an official that can be hammered and grinded and the end product results in a shiny, sharp, and stronger official.

Proverbs 27: 17:  As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.

This verse basically says as iron is used to sharpen iron--just as in the sword making process--we are called to sharpen each other.  Considering what the Proverb states, in an article by Jon Gordon, “Are You a Real Team?”, he shared the difference between being part of a team vs. a “REAL” team.  Taking the points he made in the article, here is a list of what being a member of a “REAL Crew” looks like…..

o  Crew goals first; individual goals second.

o  Committed to each other and the crew.

o  Desire is to serve the crew.

o  Crew communication is essential to build trust, commitment and teamwork.

o  Care even more about the crew.

o  Time with the crew is a priority.

o  Build trust, share love and show respect in everything the crew does.

o  Fighting makes crew stronger because of trust, love and growth from disagreements.

o  Every crew member is on the bus with a shared vision, focus and purpose.

o  Strong leaders who develop other leaders.

o  Ego to be great but gives up ego to serve crew in order to be great.

Don’t just be a member of a crew, be a member of a REAL Crew!

Summer Clinic Devotion--Top 10

Over the years, watching ESPN’s Top 10 Plays of the Day was something to look forward to late at night.  Now, we look forward to the “Not So Top 10.”  David Letterman also made his Top 10 list famous with his comical late-night list.  In the Bible, God created the original Top 10--Ten Commandments.   In Exodus 20: 2-17, the Ten Commandments are given by Moses.

The 10 Commandments in the Bible were God’s instructions on how we should live our lives on earth.  What would be the Ten Commandments of Officiating?  As officials, we have great responsibility in our dealings with our crew mates, Supervisors, coaches, administrators, and players.  What are the underlying values/commandments that help us in officiating?

10 Commandments in the Bible (Exodus 20: 2-17)

I.              Thou shall have no other gods before me.
II.            Thou shall have no idols.
III.          Thou shall not take the name of the Lord God in vain.
IV.      Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.
V.          Honor thy father and mother.
VI.            Thou shall not kill.
VII.          Thou shall not commit adultery.
VIII.        Thou shall not steal.
IX.       Thou shall not bear false witness against thy neighbor—love your neighbor as yourself.
X.        Thou shall not covet.

 

10 Commandments of Officiating

1. Thou shall not forsake all other aspects of life for officiating. Honor faith and family by all my actions while away from my family.

                 Proverbs 12: 14—We are rewarded or punished for what we say and do.

2. Thou shall respect and honor Supervisor(s)

                 Proverbs 3: 5—The wise also will hear and increase in learning, and the person of                   understanding will acquire skill and attain to sound counsel.

 

   III.    Thou shall have knowledge of rules, mechanics and philosophies and their application.

                 Proverbs 8: 14—Common sense and success belong to me.  Insight and strength are mine.

                 Proverbs 19: 27—If you stop learning, you will forget what you already know.

4. Thou shall strive to get the call right, but not be afraid to make mistakes.

                Proverbs 16: 18--First pride, then the crash— the bigger the ego, the harder the fall.

5. Thou shall communicate effectively.

                Proverbs 21: 23—He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity.

6. Thou shall have courage.

                Proverbs 28: 1--The wicked run away when no one is chasing them, but the godly are as                   bold as lions.

7.   Thou shall learn from review and critiques.

               Proverbs 12: 1—Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, but one who hates correction                is stupid.

               Proverbs 23: 12—Apply your heart to instruction, and your ears to words of knowledge.

8. Thou shall have composure to stay grounded in my emotions and compassion to understand emotions of others.

               Proverbs 20: 3—It makes you look good when you avoid a fight, only fools love to quarrel.

9. Thou shall have humility to understand my role in the game.

              Proverbs 18: 12—Before his downfall a man’s heart is proud, but humility comes before               honor.

             Proverbs 27: 2—Don’t brag about yourself-let others praise you.

10. Thou shall have the physical, mental, and emotional ability to work the game.

             Proverbs 13: 4--Lazy people want much but get little, but those who work hard will prosper.

Finish Well

Do we finish things well?  The answer is probably Yes and No—some things we do, some things we don’t.  Everything we do has a finish point—it’s not an option……

·         Kids grow up and leave our house (maybe/hopefully!)

·         Our jobs end sometimes at our choice and sometimes not by our choice.

·         Officials advance to the next level, get a better or worse season rating, change positions, change conferences, retire, or don’t get asked back.

No matter what stage we are at, how we finish is important.  Not only is it important to finish, it is equally or more important to finish with the right attitude.  Because how we finish our current assignment will likely determine our next assignment.

In 1 Peter 5:10, Peter explains the hope, determination, and strength of finishing strong…..

“And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.”

Notice the first part of this verse…”…suffered for a little while.”  In most anything we do, suffering is a part of it.  In officiating, suffering is certainly part of the business-- waiting on the next opportunity to advance, making an game impacting call that’s incorrect, getting injured, receiving a bad rating, or not getting an assignment we thought we would get or thought we deserved more than someone else.

However, in situations we find ourselves down or “suffering”, if we press on and focus on finishing strong, this verse first states it will only last “a little while.”  Then, what lies ahead is restoration, conformation, and strength which will “establish you”—meaning settle and fix us firmly.  Being established could be the most vital one for officials.  When faced with a difficult situation, our hearts and minds often get “unsettled.”  However, relying on past experiences and coming through those times can help us be “established” or ”settled” to make it to the finish—and to do it well. 

So, no matter your situation or position—a first year official ending your first year or a seasoned official ending your career, finish well—because how you finish will likely determine your next assignment!

GREATNESS

GREATNESS

Legendary coach John Wooden coined a phrase “competitive greatness”--striving to be the best we can, not trying to be the best.   Coach Wooden defined competitive greatness as a real love for hard battle, knowing it offers the opportunity to be at our best when our best is required.

Three concepts help grasp competitive greatness:

1)       Be Prepared! Wooden would spend 30 minutes teaching his players to put on socks. He said “I derived great satisfaction from identifying and perfecting those ‘trivial’ and often troublesome details, because I knew . . . that each one brought UCLA a bit closer to our goal: competitive greatness.” Having a passion to prepare will help us face the battle without fear.

2)       Be Disciplined! If integrity is doing the right thing when no one is watching, then competitive greatness is working hard when no one is watching. Martin Luther wrote, “The maid who sweeps her kitchen is doing the will of God just as much as the monk who prays—not because she may sing a Christian hymn as she sweeps but because God loves clean floors. The Christian shoemaker does his Christian duty not by putting little crosses on the shoes, but by making good shoes, because God is interested in good craftsmanship.”

3)       Be Focused! Competitive greatness is focusing on a clear vision and not being sidetracked. Bill Hybels says vision is a picture of the future that produces passion.

Proverbs 2:7 (NIV)   He holds success in store for the upright, he is a shield to those whose walk is blameless.

Thanks for All

Thanks for All

From “Today” devotions (Nov. 24, 2005)

Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.

 1 Thessalonians 5:18                           

The  belief in the divine guidance of God makes it possible for us to be "thankful when things go well" and "patient when things go against us".  So, that makes us sometimes thankful and sometimes patient.

Paul said it is God's will for us to be thankful "in all circumstances."  Note Paul did not say we should be thankful for all circumstances but in all.  When things seem to go against us, God expects us to be grateful that He will help us endure under the strain.

Do you find it equally difficult to be thankful when things are going well?  When things go well, we have so much to be grateful for. But, the very nature of human beings, even if a Christian, is to overlook the good gifts God gives us every day.

Today, exercise the gift of noticing. Notice what you see, what you have, and who is with you. Notice the color, beauty, and variety around you. Keep noticing, and make a list of the gifts you notice.  

As an official, be thankful for the opportunity God gives you to be a part of a game that you love.  In officiating, we are thankful in the good times and hope that we can be patient in the tough times.  Be thankful for the family support we receive and the support from fellow officials.  Finally, be thankful that you can touch the lives of others through officiating and also look for ways to be the “Thanks” someone needs.

Mental Toughness

7 Habits Of People With Remarkable Mental Toughness

JEFF HADEN, INC.

JUL. 23, 2014, 3:46 PM (Business Insider)

"The ability to work hard and respond resiliently to failure and adversity; the inner quality that enables individuals to work hard and stick to their long-term passions and goals."

the word:  Grit.

The definition of grit almost perfectly describes qualities every successful person possesses, because mental toughness builds the foundations for long-term success. Successful people are great at delaying gratification, withstanding temptation, overcoming fear (doesn't mean they aren't scared — that does mean they're brave.)

Ways to become mentally stronger and more successful:

1. Always act as if you are in total control.
"Pray as if God will take care of all; act as if all is up to you."

Many people feel luck has a lot to do with success or failure. Most successful people do sense good luck played some role in their success. But, they don't wait for good luck or worry about bad luck. If they succeed, they caused it. If they fail, they caused it. By not wasting mental energy worrying about what might happen to you, put all your effort into making things happen.  You can't control luck, but it can definitely control you.

2. Put aside things you have no ability to affect.

Mental strength is like muscle strength — no one has an unlimited supply. Don’t waste your power on things you can't control.

3. See the past as valuable training … and nothing more.

The past is valuable. Learn from your mistakes and mistakes of others.  When something bad happens to you, see it as an opportunity to learn something you didn't know. When another person makes a mistake, don't just learn from it — see it as an opportunity to be kind, forgiving, and understanding. The past is just training; it doesn't define you. Think about what went wrong but only in terms of how you will make sure that next time you and the people around you know how to make sure it goes right.

4. Celebrate the success of others.

When someone else shines, does that diminishes the light from our stars? Resentment sucks up a massive amount of mental energy — energy better applied elsewhere. Don't resent success of others.  Create and celebrate it wherever you find it, and in time you'll find even more of it in yourself.

5. Never allow yourself to whine. (Or complain. Or criticize.)

Your words have power, especially over you. Whining about your problems always makes you feel worse, not better. Put that mental energy into making the situation better. Don't talk about what's wrong. Talk about how you'll make things better, even if that conversation is only with yourself.

6. Focus only on impressing yourself.

A relationship not based on substance is not a real relationship.  Genuine relationships make you happier, and you'll form genuine relationships only when you stop trying to impress and start trying to just be yourself and you will have more mental energy to spend on the people who really do matter in your life.

7. Count your blessings.

Take a second every night before you turn out the light and, in that moment, quit worrying about what you don't have. Quit worrying about what others have that you don't. Think about what you do have. You have a lot to be thankful for.  Feeling better about yourself is the best way of all to recharge your mental batteries.

1 Corinthians 16:13:  Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong.

 

Opportunity

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Deut. 20:4:  For the LORD your God is the one who goes with you to fight for you against your enemies to give you victory.

When we are in deep in a situation and are not sure what the outcome is going to be, do you look at it as an opportunity?

An organization in Montana offered a bounty of five thousand dollars for every wolf captured ALIVE. Two hunters decided to make some money capturing wolves. Day and night, they searched the mountains and forests.  They spent three unsuccessful days hunting.  After falling asleep on the third night, one of the hunters suddenly woke up and looked out their tent to find the two were surrounded by a pack of fifty wolves, their eyes flaming and teeth showing.  Immediately, one hunter yelled to the other, "Hey, wake up! We're gonna be rich!"

In the mist of a difficult situation, we can feel overwhelmed. Sometimes we feel like we are surrounded and about to be attacked by a pack of wolves.  But, can difficulties actually be opportunities?  Certainly, God can show His presence by taking the situation and turn it for His Glory.  It creates opportunities for us to become stronger and testify of His goodness.  One difficult thing to understand is the end result may not be what we expected or what we wanted.  But, when you are relying on God’s power, He will show you what needed to be learned from the “opportunity”.

As officials, we can often feel like we are surrounded by wolves--coaches, fans, media, Supervisors, and even fellow officials.  However, when in the middle of situation, do we say “We’re gonna be rich”—meaning we will be better on the other side than where we started.

We have the opportunity to learn, grow, and experience the grace and power of God through trials, or “opportunities”. 

Now, let’s go get rich and capture wolves!

The Emotional Roller Coaster

What feelings do you get when you ride a roller coaster?  For some people, it’s a high!  For other people, it’s terrifying.  Life is the same way--like the old saying “life is a roller coaster.”  At times, we can be sent rocketing toward adrenaline-boosted highs. But, then, it can also throw us into a downward spiral with emotional lows.

Life as an official is no doubt the same:  adrenaline-boosting highs and downward spiraling lows.  The question is this:  when you get off the roller coaster—how do you feel?  Some people get off a roller coaster and are ready to jump back in line.  Others get off the same ride to find the nearest trash can!  As officials, we want to find the middle.  Our emotions don’t need to be bound to these ups and downs.  If we appear too confident when things go well and we are on a high, we may lose focus on what got us to the high.  On the other hand, when we are at a point things seem to be spiraling downward, we can’t keep looking down.

The goal is to model consistency in our emotions.  When were in the game (riding the roller coaster), our emotions need to be steady.  The key is to have steady emotions both outwardly and inwardly.  Then, at the end of game (when we exit the roller coaster), we don’t want to get caught in a trap of being emotionally high or heading for the nearest trash can.

2 Timothy 1: 7:  For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.

God did not give us a spirit of cowardice or of fear.  He gives us a spirit of power, love, calmness, well balanced mind, discipline and self-control.  In reality, we may not always act in this way.  But, we must remember that’s how we were made and have the ability to control our emotions.

“One thing you can't hide - is when you're crippled inside.” ― John Lennon

Sometimes you succeed.... and other times you learn.

Evaluate:  to determine the significance or quality of; assess

I applied my heart to what I observed and learned a lesson from what I saw. Proverbs 24:32

How many agree with this old saying?......"Experience is the best teacher."  The answer is NO.  Experience is a great teacher only if take the time to evaluate our experiences.

"Mindless activities create shallow thinking, while evaluated action broadens our perspective."

 

We can go through life at home, at work and in our preparation to be an official without any real sense of understanding whether our experience was right, wrong or indifferent.  The key is to observe, evaluate, learn and apply lessons.  Going back to evaluate our experiences is a very good use of our time.

Do you consider yourself an Employee or an Entrepreneur?  There is a big mindset difference between the two...................an employee sees failure as rejection; entrepreneur sees failure as correction.  Experiencing failure, for a successful entrepreneur is feedback, a way to learn and grow.  One of the greatest entrepreneur’s of our time, Bill Gates, said this….

It’s fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure.

Now, the quote from the beginning should be changed to "Evaluated experience is the best teacher."  We draw lessons from the past only when we study it.  So, don't just accept experiences for what they are.  Study them; see what you learned, and how or what you would change going forward, if anything.

“What a person knows at fifty that he did not know at twenty is not the knowledge of formulas or forms of words, but of people, places, actions—a knowledge gained by touch, sight, sound, victories, failures, sleeplessness, devotion, love—the human experiences and emotions of this earth and of oneself and of other men.”

~ Adlai Stevenson, former Governor of Illinois and two-time Democratic nominee for President of the United States

Success

 

How do you define success? 

The first key to success is FOCUS.  Our focus must be in the right place.  Officials want to be successful as individuals and as a crew and there is a delicate balance between individual success and crew success.

What happens if we are not successful?  Look at your FOCUS.  How quick do you learn and move on?  Does your lack of success compound into other failures?  Or, do you focus on how to be better going forward?  It’s not easy with so much emphasis placed on what is wrong or what has been missed.  Recognize our mistakes, learn from them, and keep our focus on how to be successful going forward using what we have learned from our mistakes/failures.

Here’s the challenge:  Keep the right focus, Lead with the right focus, and Learn with the right focus.

One success story from the Bible is King Uzziah.  His story is told in 2 Chronicles 26: 1-23. He was king for 52 years, becoming King at the age of 16. His achievements brought him fame.  He was skilled in organizing, delegating, building and was a great warrior.  But, as he achieved more and more success and fame, he became prideful in his later years as king which ultimately led to his failure and death.

Key to Success:  FOCUS

In 2 Chronicles 25: 5, King Uzziah success was a result of his focus on seeking God. 

2 Chronicles: 5:  He sought God during the days of Zechariah, who instructed him in the fear of God. As long as he sought the Lord, God gave him success.

One thing that destroys Success:  Pride

In 2 Chronicle 26: 16, King Uzziah became so prideful he thought he was god.

2 Chronicles 26: 16:  But after Uzziah became powerful, his pride led to his downfall.

How to maintain success:  Be humble and be thankful.

In all the verses concerning King Uzziah and his reign as king, there is no account of the Uzziah ever showing appreciation of the gifts, abilities and successes God provided him.

We are never closer to failure than during our greatest successes.

Be thankful for what you have accomplished.  Be humble that you have been given the opportunities you have received and continue to work hard to accomplish even greater performance.