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Wednesday, September 27, 2023

Tiny Brushstrokes

When Leonardo da Vinci painted the “Mona Lisa,” he was mocked by his friends and colleagues for using such small brushstrokes to paint the picture.  By using small strokes, the painting took much longer than other painting methods.  In the end, da Vinci had the last laugh.  The painting da Vinci created one tiny brushstroke at a time became known as and still is a “masterpiece of photographic quality.”

When “seeing the big picture” is often the focus, why is it important to do small things? Andy Andrews, bestselling author of The Little Things, explains 3 benefits of when we do little things:

1.       Doing little things helps us be successful

2.       Doing little things sets us apart

3.       Doing little things helps us lead

First, taking care of the little things leads to success. In the 2008 Summer Olympics, Michael Phelps’s set a new record by winning eight medals. When he won his 8th medal, he won it by 1/100th of one second—a “little” less than a second led to a victory. On the field, our success is measured by properly officiating one play at a time much like Phelps won each race one stroke at a time.

Second, doing little things sets us apart. Think about one thing that can set you or your crew apart in a positive way? Almost all crews assign each member “a crew responsibility.”  Examples are taking care of hotel reservations, dining options, and ticket procurements. Referees also often assign members part of pregame to present such as foul reporting, scouting teams, measurements, and replay. At times, we may think our responsibility is not significant. The challenge is to complete our assignment as if it is the most important part of the crew. As small as an assignment may appear, it can lead to huge problems if not taken care of.

Third, completing little things helps us lead. We set the example by not only saying what we will do but also actually doing the work and showing appreciation for others. As officials, we are all leaders and need to recognize when others take care of their responsibilities.  As stated above, crew members take care of various aspects of the crew.  When was the last time you thanked a crewmate for taking care of their business?

Matthew 13:31-32 He put another parable before them, saying, “The kingdom of heaven is like a grain of mustard seed that a man took and sowed in his field. It is the smallest of all seeds, but when it has grown it is larger than all the garden plants and becomes a tree, so that the birds of the air come and make nests in its branches.”

In Matthew 13: 31-32, notice the small grain of mustard seed could not grow until planted. God desires us to use and plant the small seeds. The small and often insignificant assignments we are given don’t appear to add value initially.  Over time, when we consistently “take care of business” with the responsibilities we are given, we plant positive seeds for the people around us.  On football weekends, make a difference by planting seeds. We can help grow a tree that provides rest and shelter for the people around us.

Every big picture that is ever created is created one brush stroke at a time.  Andy Andrews

Thursday, September 21, 2023

Dialing In on the Target

Devotion provided by Mike Vandervelde, Referee-Big 12

As we move into conference play, Crew Chiefs often state “it is time to dial in on, and fine tune our game in order to fire on all cylinders.” For our early season games, we have evaluated and reflected on our performance; now, we turn to the meat of the season. 

As the season progresses, the question becomes how do we keep our eyes on the target?

Matthew 14: 29-30 - “And climbing out of the boat, Peter started walking on water and came toward Jesus. But when he saw the strength of the wind, he was afraid, and beginning to sink he cried out, “Lord, save me!!”

Over the last couple of years, evaluators and clinicians have told us we need to “MWP”--“move with purpose” in order to put ourselves in position to see clearly what we are supposed to see.  Personally, I hope I move with purpose according to what Jesus is calling me to do each day. 

As important as goals are within our officiating world, at the heart of every great Christian competitor should be the discipline of focusing on a greater purpose. In Matthew 14, the disciple Peter wanted to walk on water with Jesus and did so until he shifted his eyes from Christ to the fierce wind. He became fearful and began to sink.

Likewise, we will start sinking in our lives if we focus on the negative noise that surrounds us. We must allow the Holy Spirit to be our guide, reminding us that with Christ, all is well with our souls.

No matter our performance on the field, if we fix our eyes on Christ, our target, and trust His faithful provision, we will be able to accomplish His purpose, both on the field each week….dialing it in….and our daily lives.

Lastly, here are a couple questions to challenge us and think about as we get into conference play:

·         What is your focus on as you train, prepare, and officiate the game?

·         How can you keep yourself from shifting your eyes off God? Who can walk alongside you on this journey?

John 10:27

1 Corinthians 16:13

Wednesday, September 13, 2023

Trust

A son asked his mom to help him show a car that he was selling.  He was not available and wanted his mom to be at his house to let the person see the car and stick to the price he offered. His mom agreed and was at her son’s house when the potential buyer arrived. After looking over the car, the buyer asked to take it for a test drive and the mom said “sure.” What happened next?  The potential buyer took the car and never returned—but, without paying. Frustrated and mad, the son told his mom “You are too trusting; you should have gone with him for the test drive.”

Trust is the firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability or strength of someone or something. Steve Covey, author of 7 habits of Highly Effective People explained “Trust is the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It is the principle that holds everything together.”

As officials, trust truly is the glue that holds the crew together. Once trust is lost, crews struggle with communication, learning, and openness. Lack of trust leads to selfishness and an attitude that the only person that can be trusted is myself.  But, officials who trust seek others’ advice and opinions, have open lines of communication, and encourage others to share.  How is trust lost in officiating? A few examples are (1) not arriving on time (or early) for meetings and departing for stadium, (2) giving an inaccurate description of a foul to a coach or grader, or (3) not providing information to other officials that is needed.

What ways do you think causes trust to be lost in officiating?

Considering how trust is lost, let’s look at a few ways to build and maintain trust:

1)      Choose to trust

2)      Speak truth

3)      Be responsible and reliable

4)      Serve others

5)      Be forgiving

Proverbs 20:6 in the Old Testament says, “Many people declare themselves loyal; but who can find someone who is really trustworthy?”

Solomon, known in the Bible as the wisest man who ever lived, expressed in the first part of the verse that "talk is cheap." People “declare” themselves loyal with their talk. But, when the going gets tough, who are the “trustworthy” ones? The question presented by Solomon really refers to the person whose loyalty lives up to their "big talk." 

God’s desire is for us to trust in Him and to express and show that trust to others around us.  Sure, situations can occur that cause us to lose trust.  But, those situations should be the exception, not the norm.

Among the most essential qualities of the human spirit are to trust oneself and build trust with others.”   Mahatma Gandhi

Credit: https://hope1032.com.au/stories/faith/2023/can-i-trust-you-too-much-morning-devotions/ by Cris Witts

 

Thursday, September 7, 2023

The Secret to Greatness

Devotion provided by Mike Vandervelde, Referee-Big 12

What is Greatness? Everyone of us are striving to be “great” on the football field.  As officials, we are on the field and on the court surrounded by greatness, or at least a perceived sense of greatness. Along with that, our crews are working hard to be the greatest crew. Let’s look closer at defining and understanding greatness.

Who is the greatest of all time (the GOAT) in basketball? Kobe Bryant, Michael Jordan, or Lebron James? Why are these 3 players in discussion for being the greatest basketball players ever? What do we measure these players by?  Most people would specifically look at the numbers/statistics. We look at individual statistics, analyze how many wins and championships, and compare the eras in which they played. At the end of the debate, we would never come to a conclusion or an exact final answer.

Which team in college football is the greatest team of all-time?  Over the summer, I followed on “X” the voted-on bracket of the greatest teams ever.  I pose the question again--what makes someone or a team great?  According to the dictionary, greatness means the quality or state of being important, notable, or distinguished.  In the world we live, a person, a team, a business works hard to receive that perceived level of notability; however, God looks at greatness in a totally different perspective.

Matthew 20:26 gives us a very clear picture of what God wants us to do for us to be great.  In this verse, Jesus said, “Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” Jesus is talking to the mother of Zebedee’s sons.  All she wanted was for her sons to be great. If they could sit next to Jesus, in her mind she believed that they would be looked at and seen in a position of greatness. 

Philippians 2:4 – not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. 

Read John 13: 1-17 – What does Jesus teach us about what it means to be great when he washed His disciples feet? 

Jesus lead by example. He showed that the secret to greatness really comes down to serving others.  Jesus served.  To be great we need to have a heart to serve and serve often. As officials, how do we serve? 

·         Make sure crew mates have the necessary transportation

·         Clean conference room, hotel room and locker room before leaving

·         Be courteous to hotel staff, airline crews, school administrators

·         Be mentally and physically prepared for the game

Those are just a few examples.  Think and discuss some practical ways to serve while we are on the road throughout the season.

Let’s be great in God’s eyes.